Decision made for me.

[tinhuvielartanis]

Well, because I didn't respond to Scott in a timely manner, I received the following comment in one of my entries:

well apparently you havent changed and are still a fat ass bitch, so enjoy your life, fat ass

So much for changing, eh? I'm glad I read my emails before I responded to him, 'cos I was going to write him and open up lines of communication again. He can be sweet when he wants to be, and he's such a funny and smart individual, but the man has issues and they're issues with which I am not capable or willing to deal at this point.

I'm not angry about this. I'm just really very sad.

Comments

[polypolyglot.livejournal.com]

Jesus.

I hadn't responded to your poll because I wanted to peruse the relevant entries at my leisure. Prima facie, though, I was going to err on the side of the high ground and suggest to you that you offer him an olive branch.

Sorry to read this.

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

Yeah, it's a very sad situation. I feel like I have a lump in my chest.

[clauderainsrm.livejournal.com]

Yep, that's what I was figuring... oh well looks like it worked out for the best. He doesn't get to hang with the coolest chick on the net. His loss.

[bloominglotus.livejournal.com]

WTF?!? What an ass. You're better off without him in your life.

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

Agreed. But it's still really sad. I hope this is the end of it.

[metaphorge.livejournal.com]

I concur.

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I know.

It's my theory that we all have an Inner Asshole. I know I do! I try to harvest it as much as possible so stuff like this won't get to me. Anyway, if we all have an Inner Asshole, we must also have an Inner Groovy Dude. I was erring on the side of his Inner Groovy Dude, but I erred too late, which is probably a good thing, considering.

Nice to meetcha!

[falkenna.livejournal.com]

Hi, I don't know you either.
The sad thing is that the individual in question *is* drowning in the shallow end of the gene pool, but at least won't be passing it on. I have wondered before if his brain is being affected, either by disease or meds.

But it's certainly not the kind of grief Tin needs. This confirms that he's beyond help.

[zitronenhai.livejournal.com]

That bites.

And I hate ending friendships. Unfortunately, within the circumstances of a friendship ending, one can often find the toxic seed that had been there all along.

What a horrible thing for him to say. I'm sorry, T.

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

It's good I waited, eh? Otherwise, I would have let someone who hadn't changed at all back into my life.

[simplysakka.livejournal.com]

You gave me some good advice once. I return it to you.

Crush him underfoot like a grape.

And don't worry. Those who love you do for who you actually *are* - whether that's a fat ass or otherwise.

*hug*

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

LMAO! Thanks for that. You're a lovely soul.

[metaphorge.livejournal.com]

I worry when someone can't come up with a more creative insult than that.

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

That's the one button he knows he can push.

[teague.livejournal.com]

Oh, holy crap! I feel bad because I'm one of the ones who suggested the opening up. Now I feel like I wasted my words, and what an asshole I would have felt like if you had opened up and then he was such a dick. I'm sorry for that.

The thing that facinates me is why people do things. Why *did* he write you such a seemingly heartfelt appology, only to turn around and snap his teeth at you?

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

The mind boggles, chica. This is exactly the reason why I include misanthropy in my list of hobbies.

[dferguson.livejournal.com]

You most certainly are not fat. In His Infinite Wisdom God saw fit to provide with with precisely the body you need to carry around such a caring and forgiving heart.

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

That's very sweet of you to say. Thanks. :)

[onyxblue1.livejournal.com]

This is one of those times I wish I had been wrong.

I'd rather be a fat-ass than a jackass.

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

werd

[laurelindel.livejournal.com]

Hm. You're really a much better person than I am, I think. Because right now burying the hatchet in his fucking head sounds good.

*HUGS*. You are right for taking the high road. I'll be down here fuming for a while...

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

I never got the chance to take the high road and I consider it a lesson learned. Really, does anyone truly change? I'm not so sure.

Either way, I'm not gonna worry about it. Instead, I'm going to drool all over your Haldir icon and forget my woes.

[debrafortune.livejournal.com]

:(

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

Yeah, right?

[brujah.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry, doll. =(

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

Yeah, so am I. :/

[durgablue.livejournal.com]

He's pointlessly mean, there's no excuse for that. I want to hurt him for being mean to you, but what Karma will render unto him for his pointless cruelty will be far worse than what I can conceive of.

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

Meh, it's not worth your ire. It's obvious there's no hope for any sort of relationship there, so I'm just gonna put it behind me and hope that this bad penny no longer turns up.

[mekkasimian.livejournal.com]

NO FRIENDS MAKE FOR BITTER LAD.

BITTER LAD MAKE FOR NO FRIENDS.

DIGGING OWN GRAVE DAILY, BITING HAND THAT FEEDS.

SORRY TO SAY, ONLY CURE IS BALLISTIC PLUMBISM.

(AND IF FEEL LUMP IN CHEST, SCHEDULE MAMMOGRAM!)

=M=

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

**snorkle**

You're a treasure, you know that?

[green-goblin70.livejournal.com]

Anybody that doesn't like you doesn't deserved to be blessed with your attention...not that I think you're cool or anything....so...shut up!!

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

Do you realise that we take precious time out of our lives just to tell each other to shut up? Fun, innit?

[green-goblin70.livejournal.com]

Oh and quit watching the Golden Girls dammit!! You're turning into an old Jewish lady.

What kind of Sith walks around singing, "Thank you for being a friend?" You big Poser wannabe.

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

Uh...shut up!

[estasia.livejournal.com]

::guppy face::

[tinhuviel.livejournal.com]

::gourami lips::